I'm curious, what are your use cases?
Me and most composers I know IRL (we all primarily write concert music) use Sibelius. Dorico seems like the "default" notation software here, which is obvious seeing as it has better ways for plugging in sample libraries and the ability to write "piano roll style" in Play mode. For composing directly with notation, I always felt Sibelius is quicker and more intuitive.
I guess I'm biased, sort of being a Sibelius veteran at this point (ca 15 years now), but it's interesting to see that your experience with these softwares is very similar to mine and most of my friends who tried Dorico. It gives me hope that it's not only a matter of me "getting old".